How to Control Your Attention and Choose Your Life
Indistractable provides a framework for understanding the real drivers of distraction, revealing the hidden psychology that makes us reach for our devices, and teaches us how to build "traction," set the course for doing what we truly want to do, and become the kind of people we want to be.
Author:
Nir Eyal
Published Year:
2019-01-01
First, let's look at mastering internal triggers. Most of us blame external triggers – the pings, dings, and notifications – for our distractions. But Eyal argues that the *root* cause is often internal.
Eyal argues that the *root* cause of distraction is often internal, stemming from our desire to avoid uncomfortable emotions. We often reach for distractions like social media when feeling bored, stressed, or lonely. "Indistractable: How to Control Your Attention and Choose Your Life" emphasizes that this is a natural human response to pain, but it hinders our ability to focus on important tasks.
To master internal triggers, "Indistractable" suggests practicing awareness by noticing and labeling the feelings that lead to distraction. Instead of impulsively reacting, pause and identify the emotion. For example, acknowledge feeling anxious or restless.
Another technique from "Indistractable" is "reimagining the trigger." Instead of viewing boredom as negative, see it as a potential catalyst for creativity. Exploring the sensation of the emotion, rather than judging it, helps in understanding and managing it.
The book "Indistractable" highlights that understanding and managing these internal triggers is crucial for maintaining focus and achieving goals. It's about recognizing our emotional responses and consciously choosing how to react to them.
Next, let's delve into making time for traction. Traction, as Eyal defines it, is the opposite of distraction.
Traction, as defined in "Indistractable", is the opposite of distraction—actions that move you toward your goals. The key to gaining traction is intentional time planning. "Indistractable" advocates for using a "timeboxed calendar" rather than relying on to-do lists.
A timeboxed calendar involves scheduling blocks of time for everything, aligning with your values. "Indistractable: How to Control Your Attention and Choose Your Life" emphasizes that your calendar should reflect your priorities, not just urgent tasks.
To create a timeboxed calendar, as suggested in "Indistractable", first identify your values (e.g., family, health, creative work) and then translate these values into time blocks in your calendar. This ensures that important aspects of your life receive dedicated time.
The book "Indistractable" acknowledges that unexpected events happen. The timeboxed calendar is about being intentional, not inflexible. If something disrupts your schedule, you can consciously decide to reschedule, preventing important activities from being neglected.
Now, let's talk about hacking back external triggers. These are the pings, dings, and notifications that constantly bombard us.
External triggers, such as pings and notifications, constantly pull our attention. "Indistractable: How to Control Your Attention and Choose Your Life" suggests removing these triggers by turning off notifications, unsubscribing from unnecessary emails, and using "Do Not Disturb" mode.
"Indistractable" also recommends using "focus tools," such as apps like Freedom and Forest, to block distracting websites and apps. These tools help create an environment that supports focus.
The book "Indistractable" emphasizes that each time you switch your attention due to an external trigger, it takes time and energy to refocus. Minimizing these interruptions significantly improves productivity.
By addressing these external triggers, as highlighted in "Indistractable", you create a conducive environment for focused work and minimize the chances of getting sidetracked by constant notifications and alerts.
Fourth, let's explore preventing distraction with pacts. A pact is a precommitment you make to yourself or others to avoid distraction.
"Indistractable" introduces pacts as precommitments to avoid distraction. These include effort pacts, price pacts, and identity pacts.
An effort pact, as described in "Indistractable", involves making it harder to engage in distracting behavior, such as deleting social media apps. A price pact involves putting a cost on getting distracted, like a bet with a friend.
An identity pact, according to "Indistractable", involves changing your self-perception. For example, instead of saying "I'm trying to quit smoking," say "I'm a non-smoker." This shift can significantly influence behavior.
The book "Indistractable" emphasizes that pacts leverage our natural tendencies. We are more likely to follow through on public commitments and act consistently with our self-image. The combination of addressing triggers and making pacts is crucial for becoming indistractable.
The cure for boredom is curiosity. There is no cure for curiosity.
The opposite of distraction is not focus; it is traction.
Distraction, on the other hand, is any action that pulls you away from what you intended to do.
Time management is pain management.
To be indistractable means striving to do what you say you will do.
Indistractable is about living with personal integrity.
You can’t call something a distraction unless you know what it is distracting you from.
Being indistractable means making sure that you are in control of your attention and actions.
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