The Little Book of Hygge: Danish Secrets to Happy Living, from the CEO of the Happiness Research Institute in Copenhagen, offers advice and ideas to help you experience more joy and contentment the Danish way.
Author:
Meik Wiking
Published Year:
2016-01-01
First, let's look at the core concept of Hygge. What does it really mean?
Wiking describes hygge as "the art of creating intimacy," "cosiness of the soul," and even "cocoa by candlelight." It's about atmosphere and experience, more than just things. It's about feeling safe, shielded from the world, and letting your guard down.
Hygge is a core concept of Danish culture, and "The Little Book of Hygge: The Danish Way to Live Well" explains it is not just about cozy blankets and candles. It is a deeper philosophy of creating a warm atmosphere and enjoying the good things in life with good people. The book emphasizes that Hygge is about feeling safe and letting your guard down.
The feeling of Hygge can be found in many different situations. For example, a gathering of close friends, with laughter and the aroma of a delicious meal. Or, being curled up with a good book, with the rain pattering softly against the window. "The Little Book of Hygge: The Danish Way to Live Well" shows us that Hygge is about the atmosphere and experience.
You might be asking, How can *I* create this in my own life?
You might be asking, How can *I* create this in my own life? Here's how: Start with your environment. Dim the lights, light some candles, and create a cozy nook, a "hyggekrog," where you can relax and unwind.
Creating a Hyggekrog is essential to experiencing Hygge. "The Little Book of Hygge: The Danish Way to Live Well" suggests that this could be a comfy armchair, a window seat, or even just a corner of your sofa. The important thing is to add soft textures like blankets and cushions to create a space that feels inviting and comforting.
The book encourages readers to dedicate a small area of their home to becoming their hyggekrog. It doesn't have to be perfect, just a space where you can intentionally relax. This intentional relaxation is a key component of "The Little Book of Hygge: The Danish Way to Live Well".
Now, let's move to a key element of Hygge, the connection to food.
Wiking talks about the joy of cooking with friends, the simple act of making something delicious becoming a bonding experience. He mentions a food club he formed with his friends, where they cook together, experimenting with different themes and ingredients.
The taste of hygge is often familiar, sweet, and comforting, and it is about indulging. More importantly, "The Little Book of Hygge: The Danish Way to Live Well" describes that it's about the shared experience of preparing and enjoying food together.
The book highlights an evening where the author and friends tried to make sausages. Even though the food was a disaster, the evening itself was incredibly hyggelig because of the process, the shared effort, and the laughter. "The Little Book of Hygge: The Danish Way to Live Well" reminds us that food is a vehicle for connection.
We've talked about the atmosphere and the food, but hygge isn't confined to the winter months or just the indoors.
Wiking emphasizes that hygge can be found in the changing light of the seasons, the fresh air, and the beauty of nature. Hygge is a year-round pursuit and it is about finding joy in the simple pleasures of each season.
The book, "The Little Book of Hygge: The Danish Way to Live Well", gives examples of Hygge in different seasons. A summer picnic, an autumn walk, or even a simple bike ride can be hyggelig, if you take the time to appreciate the scenery.
Even in urban environments, you can find pockets of hygge. "The Little Book of Hygge: The Danish Way to Live Well" suggests a visit to a local park, a quiet moment in a coffee shop, or simply enjoying the sunset from your window can all be hyggelig experiences.
Now, let's talk about the sounds of Hygge.
The sounds of Hygge are often subtle and calming. The crackling of a fire, the gentle rain on the roof, the wind rustling through the trees. It's about the absence of jarring noises, allowing you to appreciate the quieter sounds of a safe and peaceful environment.
Wiking points out that even the sounds of someone cooking, drawing, or knitting can be hyggelig, because they represent a sense of shared activity and comfort. "The Little Book of Hygge: The Danish Way to Live Well" even states that the sound of thunder can be hyggelig if you're inside, feeling safe and protected.
Our auditory environment has a profound impact on our mood and well-being. "The Little Book of Hygge: The Danish Way to Live Well" teaches us that by consciously cultivating a soundscape of hygge, we can create a more relaxing and restorative atmosphere.
Hygge also extends beyond the home, and the danes put a lot of effort in their home in order to achieve this state.
Your home is your sanctuary, your "hygge headquarters," as Wiking calls it. Danes, he explains, tend to invest a lot of effort and money into making their homes hyggelige.
The book, "The Little Book of Hygge: The Danish Way to Live Well", shares a story about the author spending his entire salary one month, while he was a student, on a designer chair. This highlights the importance Danes place on design and creating a beautiful, comfortable living space.
The author suggests one small change you can make to your home to make it feel more hyggelig. "The Little Book of Hygge: The Danish Way to Live Well" suggests it could be as simple as adding a new lamp, rearranging your furniture, or decluttering a corner.
Now, let's get practical.
Wiking suggests creating a "hygge emergency kit" for those evenings when you need a quick dose of comfort and relaxation. This could be a box, a cupboard, or even a suitcase filled with hygge essentials.
The book, "The Little Book of Hygge: The Danish Way to Live Well", suggests including candles, good-quality chocolate, a favorite book or magazine, a cozy blanket, a selection of teas or hot chocolate, a notebook and pen for journaling, and a pair of warm socks.
The "Hygge Manifesto," outlines ten key principles: Atmosphere, Presence, Pleasure, Equality, Gratitude, Harmony, Comfort, Truce, Togetherness, and Shelter. "The Little Book of Hygge: The Danish Way to Live Well" encourages readers to apply these principles in their busy, stressful lives by starting small and choosing one principle to focus on each day.
The book also provides a "Hygge Wishlist,"
The "Hygge Wishlist," is a list of ten things that can make your home more hyggelig. These include a "hyggekrog" (a cozy nook), a fireplace, candles, things made of wood, natural elements, books, tactile objects, vintage items, blankets and cushions, and a collection of your favorite mugs.
Wiking argues that hygge doesn't have to be expensive. "The Little Book of Hygge: The Danish Way to Live Well" is about appreciating the simple pleasures in life, which are often free or inexpensive.
The book lists ten inexpensive hygge activities, such as playing board games, having a "pantry party", watching a TV show together, setting up a mini-library, going for a walk or bike ride, having a movie night, building something, visiting a market, going camping, and having a bonfire. "The Little Book of Hygge: The Danish Way to Live Well" provides many options for all budgets.
What surprised me most about this book is how much hygge is about mindset and intention, rather than material possessions.
What surprised me most about this book is how much hygge is about mindset and intention, rather than material possessions. It's about choosing to slow down, appreciate the simple things, and connect with others.
This changes how we approach the pursuit of happiness. "The Little Book of Hygge: The Danish Way to Live Well" teaches that it's not about chasing external validation or material success, but about cultivating inner peace and contentment.
The essence of "The Little Book of Hygge: The Danish Way to Live Well" is to embrace the small joys, connect with loved ones, and create a sense of warmth and belonging in your life. Next time you feel stressed or overwhelmed, remember the principles of hygge.
In essence, "The Little Book of Hygge: The Danish Way to Live Well" is for anyone looking to cultivate more warmth, comfort, and connection in their lives. "The Little Book of Hygge: The Danish Way to Live Well" offers a pathway to a more fulfilling existence by embracing the principles of hygge. It's a guide to finding joy in the everyday, and "The Little Book of Hygge: The Danish Way to Live Well" can help you achieve this.
Hygge has been called everything from the “art of creating intimacy”, “cosiness of the soul”, and “the absence of annoyance” to “taking pleasure from the presence of soothing things”, “cosy togetherness”, and “the pursuit of everyday pleasures”.
Danes are the happiest people in the world, and hygge is a central part of their culture.
Hygge is about an atmosphere and an experience, rather than about things.
It is about being with the people we love. A feeling of home. A feeling that we are safe, that we are shielded from the world and allow ourselves to let our guard down.
You can light a candle, drink some tea, read a good book, and be perfectly hygge by yourself.
Hygge is humble and slow. It is choosing rustic over new, simple over posh, and ambience over excitement.
The best things in life are free – and hygge is free.
Hygge is about giving your responsible, stressed-out self a break.
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