Tiny Habits: The Small Changes That Change Everything is a science-backed, step-by-step guide to building habits quickly and easily, from the world’s leading expert on habit formation.
Author:
BJ Fogg
Published Year:
2019-01-01
First, let's look at the elements of behavior.
Fogg introduces a simple yet powerful model called the Fogg Behavior Model. It states that behavior happens when three things come together at the same time: motivation, ability, and a prompt.
Think of it like this: you need the desire to do something (motivation), the capacity to do it (ability), and a trigger to remind you (prompt).
Let’s say you want to start flossing regularly. Using the Fogg Behavior Model, Sarah realized her prompt was the problem. She kept her floss tucked away in a drawer, out of sight, out of mind. Her motivation was there, and she certainly had the ability, but the prompt was weak.
So, what did she do? She placed the floss right next to her toothbrush, making it visible and impossible to ignore. This simple change – adjusting the prompt – made all the difference.
Next, let's talk about motivation – and why it's often misunderstood.
We tend to think of motivation as this constant, unwavering force. But in reality, motivation fluctuates. Some days you're fired up, ready to conquer the world. Other days, you just want to stay in bed. Relying solely on motivation is like trying to sail a boat with inconsistent winds.
Fogg argues that instead of focusing on boosting motivation, we should focus on making the behavior so easy that it requires minimal motivation. This is where the "tiny" part of Tiny Habits comes in.
The book "Tiny Habits: The Small Changes That Change Everything" gives an example of a man who wanted to eat healthier. Instead of overhauling his entire diet, he started with one tiny habit: placing a single piece of fruit on his kitchen counter every morning. That’s it. It was so easy, he couldn't *not* do it.
Here's why this matters: When you consistently succeed at a tiny habit, you start to see yourself as the kind of person who *does* that habit. You’re building a new identity, one small step at a time. "Tiny Habits: The Small Changes That Change Everything" emphasizes this point.
Emotions, Fogg discovered, are the secret sauce of habit formation.
Emotions, Fogg discovered, are the secret sauce of habit formation. It's not just about the repetition; it's about how you *feel* after you perform the behavior. He calls this "Shine."
Think back to Sarah and her one-tooth flossing. After she flossed that single tooth, she would celebrate. This positive reinforcement, this feeling of Shine, is what wired the habit into her brain. It’s the key.
The brain is wired to seek out rewards. When you perform a behavior and follow it with a positive emotion, you're essentially telling your brain, "Hey, that was good! Let's do that again." This creates a positive feedback loop, making it more likely you'll repeat the behavior in the future. The book "Tiny Habits: The Small Changes That Change Everything" explains this concept in detail.
Fogg suggests finding a celebration that feels authentic and natural to you. It could be a physical gesture, a verbal affirmation, or even just a mental note of appreciation. The key is to do it *immediately* after you perform the tiny habit.
Let's move on to growing your habits.
Once you've established a tiny habit, you can start to gradually increase it. But the key is to do it in a way that still feels easy and sustainable. Fogg calls this "scaling up."
Think of it like planting a seed. You start with a tiny seed, nurture it, and over time, it grows into a strong, healthy plant. You wouldn't expect a seed to sprout into a giant tree overnight, right? The same principle applies to habits, as explained in "Tiny Habits: The Small Changes That Change Everything".
With Sarah, after she consistently flossed one tooth, she naturally started flossing two, then three, and eventually, all of her teeth. It wasn't a forced effort; it was a natural progression. The habit had taken root, and it was growing organically.
The book "Tiny Habits: The Small Changes That Change Everything" provides a helpful framework for scaling up your habits. It suggests increasing the behavior in small increments, always staying below your ability level. This ensures that you continue to feel successful and avoid feeling overwhelmed.
Now, let’s tackle those bad habits.
We all have them, those behaviors we wish we could quit but just can't seem to shake. Fogg offers a systematic approach to untangling bad habits, and it starts with understanding the underlying prompt.
Remember, every habit has a prompt. For bad habits, the prompt is often something subtle, something we might not even be consciously aware of. It could be a certain time of day, a specific location, an emotional state, or even a particular person.
The book "Tiny Habits: The Small Changes That Change Everything" uses the example of a woman who wanted to stop checking social media so often. She realized that her prompt was boredom. Whenever she felt a lull in her day, she would instinctively reach for her phone.
Here's what to do instead of trying to resist the urge, which often backfires: focus on changing the prompt or making the behavior more difficult. You can also use the "Swarm of Behaviors" technique from "Tiny Habits: The Small Changes That Change Everything" to brainstorm solutions.
Finally, let's talk about how we change together.
Habits aren't just individual; they're often influenced by our social environment. The people around us, our culture, and our communities all play a role in shaping our behaviors.
Fogg emphasizes the importance of creating a supportive environment for change. This could involve finding an accountability partner, joining a group with similar goals, or even just sharing your intentions with friends and family.
The book "Tiny Habits: The Small Changes That Change Everything" highlights the power of social connection in habit formation. When we see others engaging in a behavior, we're more likely to adopt it ourselves.
If you want to start exercising, find a workout buddy or join a fitness class. If you want to eat healthier, cook meals with friends or family who share your goals. "Tiny Habits: The Small Changes That Change Everything" encourages surrounding yourself with supportive people.
Now, let’s put all of this into a simple, actionable framework.
The author suggests a simple recipe for creating Tiny Habits: After I [existing habit], I will [tiny new habit]. Then, I will [celebration].
For example: After I brush my teeth, I will floss one tooth. Then, I will say, "Good job!" This is a direct application of the principles in "Tiny Habits: The Small Changes That Change Everything".
The key is to tailor the recipe to your own life, your own routines, and your own preferences. Remember the core message of "Tiny Habits: The Small Changes That Change Everything": start small and celebrate.
You might wonder, "What if I forget to do my tiny habit?" Don't beat yourself up. It happens. Just get back on track as soon as you can. Remember, this isn't about perfection; it's about progress, as emphasized in "Tiny Habits: The Small Changes That Change Everything".
The two maxims in Behavior Design are: (1) Help ourselves do what we already want to do, and (2) Help ourselves feel successful.
The two maxims in Behavior Design are: (1) Help ourselves do what we already want to do, and (2) Help ourselves feel successful.
These are very important and should be considered when designing for behavior change, and are core principles in "Tiny Habits: The Small Changes That Change Everything".
The power zone is a space where a person cares about the subject and are uncertain. Any feedback given in the Power Zone will be amplified. This concept is also discussed in "Tiny Habits: The Small Changes That Change Everything".
The essence of Tiny Habits is this: Take a behavior you want, make it tiny, find where it fits naturally in your life, and nurture its growth.
If you want to create a new habit, you must first understand its anatomy.
The easier a behavior is to do, the more likely the behavior will become a habit.
Emotions create habits. Not repetition. Not frequency. Not rewards. Emotions.
There are only three things we can do that will create lasting change: Have an epiphany, change our environment, or take baby steps.
The Fogg Behavior Model shows that Behavior (B) happens when Motivation (M), Ability (A), and a Prompt (P) come together at the same moment.
Make it tiny. This is the key to creating new habits that last.
Celebration is the best way to create a positive feeling that wires in a new habit.
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